Take It Back On Throwback Thursday’s



Let’s Take It Back To The Most Influential Post You Have Stored Away In Your Archives.

I will be obliged to start with my own which was my very first post just one month ago

New To Blogging!

I am so excited to see what you have stored away in your memoirs.

Thanks For Sharing In The Comments Below!

Until The Next Post Be Inspired!


Confessions of a Cougar


11-29-17: 2nd New Post On Willing Wednesday’s

Is It Time To Talk More About Ties That Bind?

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I often ask myself this question all the time, Is It Time To Talk More About Ties That Bind? Yes, It Is Time! I said I would share my life with hopes to inspire someone else to keep going & never give up! What could possibly be ties that bind in a life of a forty-five year old that should be more vibrant & fulfilling? Of course it is because I wake up with great hope in my heart. I will tell you this, if I do not literally inspire myself on a daily basis I would have lost my whole self a long time ago. I will be sharing exactly what I feel as I think the ties that bind try to find their own ways to let go of a life that I had to leave behind.

The life was once a three bedroom house with enough furnishings to have a mini yard sell which was very successful I must add. However, living from hotel to motel trying to keep a roof over my head I could not afford my storage so I ended up losing the rest. Those furnishing were blessings & keepsakes that were up for sale & there was nothing I could do about it.

I have yet to figure out how in the hell I still manage to maintain a smile…eye-for-ebony-354857.jpgPhoto by Eye for Ebony on Unsplash

Ties that bind, there is always a thought pondering somewhere in my mind…that there is no escape. As I try not to focus on the one room temporary arrangements especially around the holidays…WHOA…WTF do you mean temporary…you have been trapped in this little box for 4 years to be exact. Perhaps since you want to be so specific with the public why don’t you just unleash the real dragon you have become. I will not tell them about my F*#K It Syndrome. giphy (1)You better stop it so I can stay on task here. That could possibly be another topic for a different post…So, I need you to be quiet…I talk to myself & I consider it to be pretty normal because it can actually calm emotions…You should try it!

Back to the topic at hand. I finally came out of my little box to enjoy my family for the holidays and I must say I had a blast.paul-369641 (1).jpgPhoto by Paul on Unsplash

Well, I use to consider this box a small stumbling block as the ties that bind. However, I had to regain a greater perspective in my mind using the simplified version of what life in my early forties had become. A better simplistic focus was geared toward the fact I do not have to be stressed about having the extra bills to pay on a monthly basis. To break it down in a simplier form I currently do not pay for lights, water, wifi, or cable & it is always available until something out of the norms takes place.

The more powerful negative thoughts would try to over power me & lead me to believe that there is no escape.

So I had to start using this small setting as a selected skill that will inspire me on a daily basis therefore I call it home.sylwia-pietruszka-218324.jpgPhoto by Sylwia Pietruszka on Unsplash

The more positive aspect of it all for me is that I could be outside under a bridge or just outside somewhere without a roof over my head. Excuse me! What is it now? Did you tell them you have a job? You didn’t give me Time!

I do have a job, but somehow I still feel trapped because I have existing bills that are hindering me from moving forward. I also have a car note with insurance, weekly rent, & I gotta eat…GEESH! So has this been a test because just four years ago I felt as if I had it all. I really don’t question it because I was sleeping in my van that was repo’d around the Thanksgiving holidays of 2014…I was like how in the Hell will I get a plate now.

I really think you skipped a lot of shit. Be patient! 

Until The Next Post Be Inspired!

Ms. Flo

The Psychological Warfare of the Mind



How To Discover New Bloggers?

The Liebster Award Nomination

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Good day my fellow readers! I am extremely excited & honored for being nominated for the Liebster by Tashnee V Mavee.  I want to thank-you for even considering my blog for an award. Fellow Readers, please stop by her blog to like, comment & just become more engaged with Tashnee.

The Liebster Award is a blogger award for New Bloggers or those with a small following. It is a way of giving new bloggers some recognition and encouragement for their hard work. The instructions for accepting the award and passing it on are as follows.

The Rules of the Liebster Award:

  • Create a new blog post on your blog thanking the person that nominated you, link to their blog, and put in a graphic of the award.
  • Answer the questions that were provided, and then share some facts about yourself.
  • Create a new set of your own questions for others to answer.
  • Nominate ten others and share your blog post with them so they can accept their award!


Questions Provided to Ms.Flo at ToInspireUs by Tashnee V Mavee

  1. Beside blogging what do you do? I am currently a training department manager with a reputable retail company. I am currently training in 5 areas within the store to new department managers who are new to their roles 6 months or less.
  2. If you could be a President of your country just for one day, what would you Change in your country and why? I would love to change how people treat each other by possibly showing & spreading love starting with myself as a leader. Simply because so much hatred is prominent in this new day & age.
  3. Name three people who inspired you when comes to blogging ? SGNF The Unapologetic Rantings of a Reckless, Semi-Adulting She-BeastDamn, Girl. Get Your Shit Together. Unsolicited advice for shit you didn’t know you were doing wrong  & the incurable dreamer my dreams are my disease, chasing them my only option
  4. Why did you start blogging? I honestly started blogging TO INSPIRE US I want to inspire people. I want someone to look at me and say because of you, I didn’t give up….Anonymous
  5. Name you favourite gospel music? A variety of gospel music but here is my all time Favorite… 

Facts About Me

  1. I am forty-five, I have two young adult men ages 22 & 25, & I have two grand-daughters & two on the way
  2. I have a Class-B CDL, Bachelor’s in Criminal Justice & Graduated Summa Cum Laude (4.0) w/a Master’s in Criminal Justice Administration
  3. My gift of doing hair is forever with me, but on hiatus since April of 2014
  4. I work 40 hours a week, looking forward to being retired, starting doing hair at the age of 9 (so I am in partial retirement….LOL)
  5. I still color, I have coloring books, crayons & pencils & I will not share if you can’t color

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New Set of Questions For Nominee’s

  1. Why did you start your blog?
  2. What is your favorite quote and by whom? 
  3. What is your favorite post that you’ve written? (Please provide a link!)
  4. What’s your favorite TV show?
  5. What are three things you cannot live without?

My Nominee’s for The Liebster Award

  1. Touching Lives
  2. booksandstuff431
  3. A Christian In Bloom
  4. rachelwtf
  5. Inspired soul
  6. justnitablog
  7. thenakedwriter
  8. missbeckster
  9. shanishawrites
  10. Paige


Until The Next Post Be Inspired

Ms. Flo

11-27-17: 1st New Post On Magic Monday’s

Is There Really Light At The End Of The Tunnel light-2581929.jpg

Once again I sit here feeling as if you are all I hear.

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always wondering where do I go from here

contemplating the devil will sink me with fear

You promised me you would not put no more on me that I could bear

but on normal days if my hair was not loc’d Snapshot_20170819_11

I probably would find myself pulling out my hair. What is at the end of this tunnel? Is

there light…Whether I choose to do wrong from right.

You are always on my mind

because in this storm you deserve the glory

in the end my testimony will be a miraculous story

Will I remain broken, yet healed or will this testimony saves lives

because my story is real

I am overwhelmed however rejoiced even in the The Epitome of Healing

My faith, trust, & patience is being tested

therefore this storm was never my choice.

Until The Next Post Be Inspired

Ms. Flo

Is Change Affecting Your Life?



3 Most Strategic Ways To Accelerate Your Beginners Blog

Surpassing Previous Records


I am of proud of myself. I have been inspired as well as committed to My Journey_As A New Blogger

Woo-hoo! The most in one day


  1. 17 LikesOn Saturday November 25, 2017, you surpassed your previous record of most likes in one day for your posts on To Inspire Us. That’s pretty awesome, well done!
    Most Likes in One Day
    Current Record: 17
    Old Record: 16

    girl-148866.png* The Reader: Make sure you actually are reading

    blog-428950.jpg** Other Blogs: Become engaged & drop your link if the blogger allows you to promote

    You are welcome to leave your link in my comments

    smartphone-1445489.jpg*** Relationships: People in the community are really awesome. Don’t be afraid to reach out.

    She Inspired Me

    Damn, Girl. Get Your Shit Together.

    Unsolicited advice for shit you didn’t know you were doing wrong

    I am No Expert! I am a Learner

    I want to thank all of you for stopping bymessage-2616073.jpg

    Until The Next Post Be Inspired!




The Subtle Art of Liking


I felt compelled to share with the community that I now have 50 likes. It is a wonderful milestone for me after blogging earlier about How To Feel About Your First Blogger Like?

I want to thank everyone that stops by to visit. I am still New To Blogging! 

I have 16 amazing followers (readers)…please stop by their blogs & become more engaged in the community to read, like & comment to show them some love:


  1. How To Create Exposure To Explode Your Blog?
  2. 10 Ideas About Followers That Really Work
  3. 1 Month Blog Progression for a Beginner
  4. Want To Promote Yourself? Now You Can!
  5. 7 Positive Ways To Start & End Your Days
  6. Confessions of a Cougar
  7. 25 More Letters To Use If Plan A Didn’t Work
  8. Is Change Affecting Your Life?
  9. Having A Blog Party Lets Celebrate
  10. Eleven_Eleven_Seventeen
  11. Time…Revised
  12. The Day My Soul Just Opened Up!
  13. The Psychological Warfare of the Mind
  14. The Epitome of Healing
  15. How Not To Live? Or Is It OK
  16. My Journey_As A New Blogger

Please feel free to share your link if you wish. 

Damn, Girl. Get Your Shit Together.Unsolicited advice for shit you didn’t know you were doing wrong  opened the door for me to feel free. She is amazing. Check her out.

Until The Next Time Be Inspired & Share What Inspires You with your link!

Thanks For Stopping By! Ms. Flo

To Inspire Us 

I want to inspire people. I want someone to look at me and say because of you, I didn’t give up….Anonymous

1 Month Blog Progression for a Beginner



The Only Blogging Tips I Can Offer For Now As A New Blogger is to Visit Other Readers & Become Engaged in the Community.

One month ago today, I decided to step out on faith Step Out On Faith

to see what it was going to be like in the blogging community. So, in September I started deep researching on Google & Pinterest about starting a blog. I had to set this as a goal on my vision board

My Vision To A New Beinnin
My Vision Board on a Manilla Folder!

or today I would still be looking at the drama that is currently on Facebook or watching Law & Order Marathons (I still do). I needed to set myself up so I would not be totally lost when I jumped on board. I must admit I was so nervous, but I must tell you there is information in the blogging community as well and so many people willing to help when you’re New To Blogging!

There is so much information out here & it’s scary. However, I was really determined and my mind was already made up. To keep myself organized I have my vision board and my notebook because I cannot function if I am all over the place & I will get better with Time

I really do feel as if I am in the right place at the right time. I have come across some amazing bloggers and became engaged in the community. Today I want to introduce you all to my readers that follow my blog & I am too excited:  


  1. 10 Follows!Congratulations on getting 10 total follows on To Inspire Us!



Rosie Culture



Mummy Thomas’ Blog



Tikeetha T


Tashnee V Mavee

I embarked on My Journey_As A New Blogger on October 20, 2017 & today I am moving forward. I want to welcome everyone to feel comfortable when you arrive here. I want to thank everyone who stopped by to look, read, follow, like, & become more engaged with me on this new journey. My initial plans were to inspire us & I hope I have accomplished that in one way or another.


Please feel free to come here & simply be yourself and just keep it real. I’am definitely not into sugar-coating. Share your information where you can be reached in the comments below on any post and I will reach out. If you just started a new blog & I can help you, I am here or will direct you to other places & if you are looking to be more engaged beyond myself here you go Want To Promote Yourself? Now You Can!

In closing I want to share with you 7 Positive Ways To Start & End Your Days

Just Remain True To Who You Are & Blog with Consistency.

Until The Next Post Be Inspired

**Images Obtained From Google Search**